Phrases to end a war

Even being right in the middle of things, it’s easy to forget.  As humans we become habituated, conditioned to see the world through the lens of our experiences. I have worked to overcome this, to expand my vision and see with new eyes.  But I retain the ability to be surprised and confronted by the unexpected time and again. Nothing is as simple as it seems.

Every Monday and Wednesday I have been giving an English class to some university students. They have created an organization to make change in their country and are forging ahead with vigor. We happened to meet through a mutual, though distant, friend and it has become a comfortable relationship.  I approached them about English lessons because I thought it would be convenient to exchange for Lingala lessons.  Learning English would help them to bring not just their message but also their methods to a wider range of African countries. There are many English speaking countries on the border of DRC to the south and east. They hope for the opportunity to learn from organizations that are working on similar issues as well as the chance to tell the story of what is happening in their country. The founders come from and have traveled to many cities throughout Congo. They’ve set up organizations in each of these cities with the goals of problem solving the lack of development and documenting the effects of war.  Their aspirations are impressive and the evidence of progress and positive impact abounds.

So we began our English lessons with the idea that I would give them a basic jump start and then perhaps they would move on to a more structured course somewhere, or maybe I would tailor the class to suit their individual needs of getting out their message. It has proven quite fun to teach them, as they are student minded. They write a lot, take notes, ask questions and aren’t afraid to practice. This evening, I even sent them away with homework. 

We’d been talking about feelings. On Mondays the class is structured so that we learn some new vocabulary and then spend much of the time talking, asking each other questions and trying to have a conversation. We learn a lot about each other and this also leads the way to some natural expressions- the idioms of English. This week we were talking about feelings. Things like hot and tired, sleepy and nervous. I’m so hungry I could eat a horse. We talked about degrees of feelings from afraid to terrified and happy to overjoyed.  I wondered what kind of things these young guys could be scared of or what life events had brought them joy. My naiveté ever present.

“What are you afraid of? Are you afraid of spiders? Snakes?”  I am asking Alain, who has an always present smile that reminds me of the young Jimmy Fallon, sitting at his 4^th grade desk with his hands folded, smile taking up his face and head bopping to his own rhythm. Alain has that same life-is-great, not a care in the world presence.  So I wasn’t really prepared when he said, “I was terrified when the military came into my house and shot their guns all around.” Of course, he struggled with the English and used a lot of body motions but that only served to make his statement more electrifying. Ben added his own terrifying experience. “When the military was coming in from Rwanda, I was terrified for the Congolese in the east.” There was also some help with wording and a struggle to express the idea. But it was clear Ben was not just worried for himself or his family but for all the Congolese. And when was he most overjoyed? “I was overjoyed when they signed the cease fire to stop the fighting.”

Yeah. Not your average English class is what I was thinking. We had some debate about whether the correct phrase he was looking for was cease fire or peace treaty.  We eventually settled on cease fire. Because that’s why we’re here. To  learn the important phrases.

smoldering pockets

As I have been watching world events, countries falling to natural disaster, governments crumbling to human resistance, I admit to having hoped that Congo would be next. It is time for a true change to grab the African continent and sweep her clean and clear of the foul debris polluting her for so long. It is time for a new age, a return to golden splendor and wisdom that once flowed from the lands long before the tortured hands of colonization wreaked havoc and ruin. Congo remains a unique case and hearing the words on the streets, the casual comments uttered in response to Egypt and Libya, Tunisia and Ivory Coast, I am simply not sure that she is ready here. I search for the pride and belief, the fire and passion that is needed to ignite such a drastic change. Here? Within the country? There may be smoldering pockets, but I am not yet convinced it's enough.

lessons from a language

Spies. Intrigue. The decimation of a culture. My first official lesson in Lingala played something like an action adventure movie, without the stunts of course. The spies and intrigue part I am less inclined to write about just yet, still suffering from the uncomfortableness that comes from knowing people may not be who they seem...and intently so. What I have agreed to do is exchange English lessons for Lingala with a group of young university students. It seems like the perfect exchange. They can gain the ability to spread their message about the truths of Congo beyond the borders of French speaking countries and I can learn a bit of the local language in order to converse with shopkeepers or soldiers, whichever I might have need of.

My first lesson seemed to prove the difficulty of learning this language, though I've been told it's actually quite easy and can be learned and spoken well in mere months. I have my doubts. I've heard a lot about Lingala, from it being a military language, brusque and even brutal in it's form, to the fact that it has been just as slaughtered and mangled as the citizens of Congo. Lingala is spoken in the capital, Kinshasa, in a form that is mixed highly with French and has morphed with the youth (slang versions abound.) During my lesson, I had to confront my image of 'Africa,' as Congo is forever forcing me to do.

I came with my knowledge of Soussou, a language spoken in Guinea. I came with my understanding of African patterns in greeting and conversation. I assumed it would carry over. "Isn't it polite to first ask about the family, the work, the people at home before I get down to business?" I ask my teacher. He has begun with greetings and name presentation but I was expecting the ritual call and response that signals a typical exchange. "How are you?"-response- "How is the family?"-response- "How are the affairs in your village/town?-response- AND then I could get around to introducing myself or talking about why it is I came along. Maybe. After I had answered all of those same questions and threw in an emotional, "ehh" or two. And had something to eat.

Not so here in brisk and busy Kin. Here, I am told, they will scorn me for asking all of those "old-fashioned" questions, though of course, it is up to me if I choose to persist. Even the typical Lingala greeting, Mbote, is met with denial. That is the old way. It is harsh and stark to hear my teacher tell me in such a clear voice that people have long carried shame of their culture and are quick and eager to adopt European ways. I know this. I've read this as an effect of the horrors of history but to actually hear it from the mouth of a young, intelligent Congolese is stunning. I feel how it is affecting my language lesson (there are at least 3 ways to say everything depending upon the age and gender of the person I am talking to and that is only here in Kinshasa. If I am to travel to an equatorial region where they speak a more 'pure' form of  Lingala, there will be a host of words I simply don't know.) It's daunting as I fight my natural urge to want to learn the original form, though it will do me no good in Kinshasa to have these Lingala words no one really understands. I remember Lubumbashi and Nairobi with the bustling streets and the strong proud, "Jambo" greeting me everywhere. I never hear Mbote except from the mouth of another mondele or a few of the older atelier on campus.

But mostly I am struggling to accept the words I hear from my instructor. 'We've lost our culture, our identity and many people reject what is left in favor of European ideals."  It's one thing to read about the deaths of over 10 million people and to comprehend the brutalities suffered at the hands of colonial masters. But to have a vibrant, beautiful, young Congolese man sit before me some 50 years later and utter his regret at having no identity to cling to and being rebuffed by his fellow brothers as he strives to ignite the flame of pride in nationality is more than astonishing. It's decimating. I don't even know how to respond. There are no words strong enough to express my sorrow and sympathy. I am reminded of an article I read by a BBC journalist who made his home in Ivory Coast. With a marriage, recent citizenship and new house just behind him, he is facing the troubles there from the perspetive of one watching his home crumble before him. John James writes that the anguish he feels cannot be summed up in English and so he reaches for a word in  Baoulé... Yako.....meaning deep sorrow and regret. But it's only my first official Lingala lesson. I haven't had the time to acquire this kind of linguistic compassion. The chasm of my horror slowly opening, I just nod and stare. I understand, is all I can manage to utter. An understatement to say the least. I have no concept to help me understand this rejection of self; unexpected lessons from a language.

life lines

Though I have been feeling more in sync with the spirit of Congo these last few weeks, there remains a memory that lingers. It has merged with the special effects of a movie scene, in the way that memories often do, hazing the line between the reality of what was and what appeared to be.

As it lingers in my memory, it carries with it the soft scent of Guinea, country of my heart. I was wandering a grocery store in search of nothing really, except to pass the time while others shopped. The way I see it in my mind is like this, though the reality has long escaped me.

An area of the store opened up to showcase the dairy items and a small deli. There was a man talking to one of the deli workers and I felt his eyes on me as I passed to examine the yogurt and exotic cheeses. I felt the eyes of this stranger and sensed the conversation coming to a lull, a break as the man moved towards me floating softly with a hand reaching out. "That fabric," he said. "That fabric is from my country." His words seemed filled with pause and remembrance in the way of one who has been too long seperated from his homeland. I was wearing the traditional indigo of Guinea, the beautiful deep blue patterned with white cowery shell designs. It is one of my favorite, soothing and gentle against my skin. It always leaves me with the warmth and spirit of guinee filling my soul. I felt beautiful this day, wrapped up as I was in the richness of my homeland. "That fabric is from my country?" he repeated, this time more of a question, as though doubting himself, doubting my self standing before him.
"Yes," I replied, my heart quickening. "From Guinea." And in that moment, my eyes were searching this man for some sign of kindredness. I felt anxious and nervous as though I were meeting an old friend after a long absence, searching for something to say that would cement the bond between us, compatriots. And of course, in my haste, I spewed out a brief description of my times in guinea and spilled out my family connections, saying nothing yet somehow saying too much. Because, while I was filled with this eager desire to cross a bridge, he seemed stuck in awe, a state of perpetual pause.

I rambled on, nonsense that did not seem to move the conversation forward. He just stood with his far off gaze. It is such a complicated affair for me, proclaiming my love for a country that is not my own. Could he see inside me? Could he tell that I was a guinean despite my white skin and American affect? We smiled...or maybe just I smiled. In my memory, this man remains in a state of confusion. I shared names and regions but he never got past the fabric and whatever memories of his country it evoked. I admit, I didn't see much of Guinea in him. He was older, larger, light skinned, business like. Not the artist type or soldier type I am most likely to come across in my travels in Guinea. So there we stood, in the middle of some modern grocery store in Kinshasa, searching each other for signs of a far away home as if reaching out for life lines.

I see other cultures connect. The Belgians are especially good at forming alliances. You need only be from Belgium to be invited to a dinner or an afternoon on the river. It doesn't seem to matter much if you like each other, have things in common or get along. It is the country tie that forms an immediate "us" in this place of "other." Eventual we separated, this man and I. I left with a small feeling of regret, knowing I hadn't expressed myself the way I'd wished and feeling like I couldn't really let him get away- this chance for a connection. Part of me was keen to ignore all the thoughts pointing out our obvious differences. But instead, I drifted off with my doubts, keeping my eyes open for where he would go and wondering if I would work up the nerve to follow and arrange some future meeting during which we would surely have even less to say and share.

I saw him outside in the parking lot, getting into a UN vehicle. There was one last moment of considering a mad dash to his truck with...what? An invitation? A request? A plea? I felt a bit like a drowning victim watching a plane soar overhead that could not see me, would not save me. I was left simply with the memory of his hazy question and confused stare. How could this piece of Guinea be so close and yet so far? Oh, how I miss my country. It seemed to be what we were both thinking, though lost in our separate images of the same place.    

In the end, I took refuge in my fabric, wearing it like a treasured shield, a badge of honor and allegiance.
I heard his question for the rest of the day and despite our odd encounter, it gave me hope and courage.

a portrait of the bottom billion

I've been a bit stuck, these last few months. It's become a trap of writing nothing or exploring the same kinds of events over and over. I am grateful that I haven't become complacent. I'm left with finding simple ways to inject some humanity into my daily life---asking someone's name, sharing a windfall of avocados from my storm blown tree, offering a smile, a listening ear, complimenting a beautiful fabric. It's not that I don't want to do more...but effecting change in such a country is difficult, challenging at best.

I've been reading The Bottom Billion by Paul Collier and while filled with fascinating insight, he's yet to tackle what I consider the hardest question of all. I am only about half-way through this statistical analysis of why some of the poorest countries are not able to overcome their poverty and move into a truly developing model.  I've yet to encounter his suggestions (promised in the later half of the book) and nothing he's written seems overly surprising. He does even concede, with regard to aid, that a major overhaul would be necessary albeit difficult due to the fact that "aid" is a business made up of people with careers who want accolades and advancements. That in itself is contradictory to their established goal of creating improvement and self sustaining change.  Were countries to become truly self-sustaining, a lot of people would be looking for new employment. Perhaps their jobs could be reconfigured to address some of the new issues that might arise were most of the world to be functioning on a truly level playing field.

Collier does discuss some roles that international governments could play. He briefly alludes to the fact that some countries, particularly those in "landlocked, resource scarce" Africa, should perhaps never have been "allowed" to become countries in the first place. Being in economics, he does not delve into the bizarre history of how those countries were formed or why, but he brushes past this point rather quickly, noting that "what's done is done. It can't really be un-done" though it seems some in Africa might differ. As African countries are dividing themselves and overthrowing dictators, one might almost feel hopeful that change is in the air. What I am really waiting for Collier to get around to discussing is the idea that Western and developed countries have a huge stake in keeping African countries in their current position. It's not really in their best interest to have full functional, well running countries in control of the very resources they are making their living from. He doesn't seem to be acknowledging the fact that many coups and rebellions as well as dictators and military generals have been wholly supported, backed and put in place by the west. But there is still the second half of the book in which he might redeem himself.

I chose this book because, living here in Congo and being in love with Africa as I am, I continue to feel dismayed and hopeless by the cycles of poverty and lack of development I see. It never gets old. Which is why I am writing again of the things I see that turn my head and remain as images, starker than any film, playing over and over again long after I've returned to my house with running water and electricity. As I struggle to free an ice cube from its prison in the tray, my fingers fumbling, my mouth watering at the coolness it promises, this is what I see:

I see her laughing in the sunshine
Talking with a friend as they washed their clothes
Bright beautiful pagnes
Laid out to dry on the grass

I’ve gotten used to many things, here in Congo
The automatic weapon slung over the shoulder
Of a policeman
Though I can’t imagine what need he would ever have
As he directs a car backing out from its parking space
I wonder vaguely if it’s loaded
If he is ever tempted
But it’s become commonplace
My thoughts around it hazy, lazy drifting thoughts
It’s just the way things are, here in Congo

I chuckle at the prices I see in the supermarkets
$150 Lego sets, board games in the $75 range
Status symbols for those who can pay
Ten times the worth of something
Made to break
In a week
They'll be back
Conspiratorially I involve a clerk
In my disbelief
Really? Is that ketchup $13? Do people really buy it?
I shake my head, I can’t imagine
But then realize,
Despite his laugh and comical reassurances
(Yes, they do, they buy it. Is it too much?)
Everything in this store is too much
He probably doesn’t buy anything
I am too ashamed to purchase
The $3 version
Of tomatoes in a bottle

I hold my breath when I see the boys
Clinging to the windows
Hanging outside the moving vans
And when I ride on the smooth hard seats
All I can see
Is how easy it would be
To go flying out the unlatched door
If we took a curve too sharp or hit a bump
Or another car
But I know transportation is hard
To come by, here in Congo

There are so many more sights
I’ve come to see
But don’t really see
You could never get through the nights
If you really paid attention
To everything
All the children on the streets
And where they go at night
Or when it’s raining
It’s not easy to tell how many have homes
They are just escaping
And how many have only their brothers
On the road to shelter them
I play a guessing game
Older than my son?
Younger than my son?
I try to imagine how he would fare
But it doesn’t help with sleeping
Here in Congo

Today I saw her from the window
Laughing with a friend
As they washed their clothes
In a puddle by the road
Such a public puddle
On a city street
I couldn’t imagine how they set out that morning
With two buckets and some laundry
Headed for this particular spot
Where the rain had collected

As we rounded again a second time
The clothes laid out to dry on the grass
A naked baby girl stood in the road
Waiting for her turn
To be scrubbed clean
“Maybe they don’t have running water at home”
Came one casual comment
It seemed to me more like
It was the home they were missing
I can see that chubby little girl
With her bright and laughing momma
Standing in the road
By the puddle
And it’s something I can’t quite get used to
Here in Congo

Bare Bones

It was bound to happen. Time and place and lack of commitment. I was reading some posts from earlier in the whole Congo-Kinshasa adventure and find the recent ones to be lacking. There's been a change. Actually, there's been quite a few changes. I've lost some friends- a common theme in this transient kind of lifestyle. But along with them I've lost some connections. My friend from the small Italian aid agency left last year and I haven't been out to a village in at least two years. I read the descriptions of those experiences and realize how much I am really missing here.

I've stopped going to Stand Proud, reasons unknown (or maybe slightly known perhaps) another source of joy and sunshine (albeit mixed in with occasional self-doubt and confusion of purpose) lost by the wayside. And my one good neighbor who witnessed my ups and downs with the casual comfort of a kindred spirit, offering just the right amount of encouragement and distraction.....moved on and off, "gone forever" as the phrase here goes, though we maintain a virtual connection. Message via satellite is no real substitute for a warm cup of tea and welcome smile.

While my phone is quieter, missing the frequent and familiar beep of an incoming sms that lets you know someone out there is thinking of you - wants to communicate---(we used to joke about getting a window put in between our two apartments so we could just talk through the wall,) my other electronics hum with use. The computer is in near constant use as I try to infuse myself with news of the world and friends of old. The new kindle is just buzzing with anticipation about the sheer volume of books available at the click of my (ever ready) mouse.

I spend a lot of time gazing out my window, listening to the human sounds of ordinary life sprinkled with an animal sonata...chirping crickets, bird songs and bullish sounding frogs. Not much has changed in that regard.

I feel as if I've entered into some kind of waiting game. It's the critical third year when things are no longer novel (I read the descriptions of luxury houses with something of a smirk.....opulence no longer astounds me, sadly.) Soldiers with guns? Street children? Beggars in the road? I know so many of them by sight now and they know me.  Nothing personal passes between us, but we move in and out of each others world as though we've always been there and yet, never really have or will.

It's getting harder to write. I feel as if I've been stripped to my bare bones. I've been worn down by the daily routines of living. Rather than seeing things to be done, I can see only insurmountable obstacles and cold status quos.  The recent student demonstrations at UNIKIN remind me change is possible (perhaps,) but it's not really my fight to begin with. I'm just waiting to witness the outcomes.

Get out of your car and kiss me....and other odd adventures in DRC

“Remember what Bilbo used to say: ‘It’s a dangerous business, Frodo, going out your door. You step onto the road, and if you don’t keep your feet, there’s no knowing where you might be swept off to.”” — J.R.R. Tolkien

As a child, I followed Bilbo's adventures never knowing that I might be closer to his reality one day than I could ever imagine. Stepping out the door in Congo is always certain to lead to one sort of adventure or another. But, as with any long vacation sequestered here on campus, I tend to get led into a foggy haze and my thinking becomes otherworldly. It was in this dream like, slightly confused state that I set out to the closest store to get a few things. Nothing important, just some small unnecessary items. Completely forgetting there's no such thing as a quick run to the store.

I stopped to get cash at the ATM not far from school. The ATM spits out hundreds like an angry llama. I am always intrigued by the idea that you can spend US dollars on the street in Congo...anything bigger than a $5. No one will even look a single dollar bill. When I've received one as change in a bank or supermarket, even I have shaken my head in disbelief as though it were play money. "Can you give me francs? What am I going to do with that?" I say, knowing there's nowhere to spend a dollar. Its amazing how quickly our paper system becomes devalued. And to think, I used to collect change.

With a crisp brand new one hundred dollar bill, I continued on to the "corner store." Once inside, I picked up a few things totaling slightly less than $5 and was promptly told they would not accept my overzealous payment. I've had problems of this sort before in this store. A slight tear, too many wrinkles. They are very particular about American money. Crisp, clean and wrinkle free. But my hundred was fresh from the machine and so I didn't really see the problem. Too big, I guess. I just shook my head, muttering that only in a country such as Congo would they refuse to accept money. It happens all the time. Refusal to bargain to a fair price, refusal to sell, refusal to accept money for a just exchange. Bizarre. In my fugue state, I went out to the car.

There is a "point of no return" in Kinshasa and for me it lies just after the first round about leading to the boulevard and downtown. Once you drive past that, returning traffic could take hours and its definitely a no man's land out there. At the parking entrance, I looked to my left, saw the endless line of cars and decided to turn back towards Kintambo, the busy market area I had just come through. Traffic is often horrendous through there and the streets crowded with pedestrians and sellers make it something o f an obstacle course. However, I figured I could go to a cozy little store tucked on a side street and pick up some cheese, maybe some onions and get change for my oppressive one hundred dollar bill. It's an interesting store that always has a side of goat hanging to the left of the entrance. I guess they are also a butcher. I usually turn my head when I enter to avoid the graphic image. Once inside, it actually seemed like a good plan until, just as I was about to pay, someone came in and asked me to move my car. I was apparently blocking an exit from the driveway. I moved the car and drove away empty handed, albeit for that crisp, useless American money.

I headed downtown weaving through darting pedestrians, trying to heed traffic cop signals and ignoring the street boys that wanted me to perform crazy maneuvers in order to let the taxi buses through. The holiday season in Kinshasa, as in any big city, impossibly adds to the number of cars and confusion on the road. About halfway down, I came to a stop as directed by the officiating officer. He was motioning for a large truck to make a left hand turn from the oncoming lane. However, the cross lane the truck was turning into was not actually moving. The truck could not make it across the boulevard without completely blocking our way forward. At times like these I think of the simple rules of NYC driving, 'Don't block the box.' It seems obvious.

Predictably, the cars in my lane began shouting, gesturing and honking. What was happening before us simply didn't make sense. Our road was open but we were being made to wait for.....well, it wasn't quite clear. I guess it should also be predictable by now but I was taken a bit by surprise when cars started to go around the huge truck....to my left. Which meant they were now on the wrong side of the road traveling against oncoming traffic. "I am NOT doing that," I thought. But I did. I was swept up in the flow of moving vehicles and soon found myself on the wrong side of the road, immediately aware of two distinct problems. First, obviously, I was on the wrong side of the road. Second, and more importantly, the line behind the truck stretched on for quite a distance. There was no immediate access back to my correct driving lane. With safety (and perhaps a bit of mob mentality) in numbers, we all proceeded to drive defying traffic rules and common sense. Think of a car chase scene in your favorite action adventure film...though somewhat slower and with a bit more control. Just as panic began to set in, I saw an opening that would allow me to cross over into the land of sanity. I veered to my right and was soon merging into the world of correct driving laws.

With all of the traffic surrounding me and now coming in a variety of directions, things were hectic and a bit confusing. I had to come to a sudden halt just before a crosswalk where another traffic cop had given the signal. (There are no 'yellow' hand signals that I am aware of here. It's simply a turn of the body and outstretched arms that let you know if you should stop or go...slowing down is for cowards I guess.) I had passed the 'line' a bit and immediately caught the eye of the policeman. He walked up to the front of my car with large gestures. I made my own gestures in return, apologising and recognizing that I was ill placed. I even reversed a bit into an oncoming truck in an attempt to rectify the oversight. Upon reaching my front grill, he made a somewhat hilarious motion of throwing himself on top of my car as though I had hit him. No, no I shook my head. I wasn't even close to you. There were no pedestrians in sight and I had crossed the line ever so slightly. I realized the radio was on and turned it down so I could hear what he had to say.

He began pointing at me and then pointing next to him. He wanted me to get out of the car. I've never had this request before. Usually they approach the window and ask to see your license. If he moved from the front of my car however, I would be free to drive off. He continued pointing and motioning while I continued shaking my head and apologizing, trying to explain the mass of cars and confusion I had just driven through. He put his hands to his lips, Italian style. It was not the hunger sign but the get out of your car and kiss me sign. Or maybe it was my hazy head and confusion that led me to this translation. I simply didn't know what he was asking for. I tilted my head and raised my eyebrows. Was he serious? Someone on the street shouted at him and he turned. He stepped aside from the car, pointed his finger at me and told me not to drive off even as he watched me slowly pulling away.

I had nearly arrived at my destination and so pulled into the lot and purchased a few items. The downtown area was packed with people and events and general holiday commotion. It's like confetti on the eyes trying to discern if there is a real situation or just  a crowd of people waiting for transport. A bunch of police seemed to be surrounding a pushcart. I couldn't tell if the man emerging from underneath it had been hit or was repairing something. It's always that way with people under vehicles.

My return trip was equally eventful in that children seemed to be dashing from one side of the street to the other in a crazy game of 'red light, green light.' This was no game of course, just the ordinary day to day of trying to get somewhere in Kinshasa on foot. I stopped to let a young street vendor escort two little boys most of the way across the street, happy they'd had some help in their personal adventure. He went two- thirds of the way with them and then gave them a slight push as he threw his hands up in the air. "Off with you," he seemed to be saying, as he returned to his post and his friends by the side of the road. I was almost feeling hopeful.

The thing that really stops my heart is the way the smallest of boys who are selling water run after the large taxi buses and cars. The taxi buses don't slow down for them and in order to make the sale they run along side throwing bags into the windows and hoping to catch the bills tossed back to them. Because the taxis tend to create an ominous third lane down the middle of the road, the boys are often caught between rows of traffic. I drive holding my breath for them with a foot on the brake. I was a bit distracted by the scene as several other street kids came up to my window on the right. 'Tis the season and everyone is looking for some holiday cash. I shook my head at them as I eyed a young girl looking to make a quick dash across the road. Anticipating her run, I slowed down. The boys on my right formed a little posse and one of them even stepped in front of my car, policeman style. Really? Accosted by a band of seven year olds. I steered around him cautiously, in wonder at this new boldness. They banged the back of my car a few times as I made my way past them.

I finally arrived at the house with some bread and cheese in tow, still laughing about kissing the policeman. I just can't get enough of these traffic stories. It's a dangerous business, stepping out of your door.