Showing posts with label henna. Show all posts
Showing posts with label henna. Show all posts

5.5.19

Final touches

Taking care of the last minute details for our art opening was a bit of an adventure. I'd thought the printing of the book was the hardest part. Searching for a place to bind it wasn't much easier. We began the search on May 1, which is a pretty big holiday in many African countries. Or, I guess I should say it is a national holiday (not much happens except businesses close.) I had thought it was true for the US also, but apparently not. 

It just means that our preferred stop was closed. We asked the taxi driver to continue on to another place. For some reason we ended up on the market road, which was completely blocked with traffic. We had just come from 2 hours at the printing place (a momentary power cut resulted in the machine needing to be reset- a 30 minute operation, and then trimming the pages took at least an hour and a half....oh my Africa. When the guy calls and says everything is ready, he means, everything is ready to come and be looked at and discussed and maybe have some tea over....)

Playing taxi while waiting for photos
So we're stuck in unmoving traffic on the market road and the young taxi guy decides he doesn't want to do this anymore. He actually asks us to get out. Ultimately its a good thing because by walking we leave him in the dust, but really? There was no logic behind that decision since he was still stuck in the traffic. 

On foot we approach first one and then another print shop. They don't appear to be print shops; they are camouflaged in between the tire shops and hardware stores. There are very few signs, just names and phone numbers painted directly on the concrete wall. A few say Imprimerie, but it's not clear if that is a current message or one left over from years past. 

Because of the holiday, we are not having much luck. One guy has the machine we need, but he didn't come to work. Other shops point us toward a cyber cafe. When we arrive, they give us yet another location. We are constantly being told, "No, no just go down one block, turn left and he is there, on the right." Or, "just go up to the main road, take a left and the first right. It is there." Or, the classic, "go down one block, take a right and then ask." Ask for what? No one has a name, there are no street numbers. We explain our story over and over, telling the whole neighborhood what we are looking for.

Eventually, I make the call. One more stop and then we just go home. Mbalia has been walking around like a trooper, but I am exhausted. When we arrive to yet another nondescript concrete storefront, I am not expecting much. But the guy pulls out an old machine from under a table, tucked behind a dusty pile of tarps and odds and ends. It looks like it is going to work. 

I took a seat outside, on one of the chairs that are found all over Bamako streets. It is so comfortable (the big deception is that these chairs, which appear to be threadbare and falling apart, are actually divine) and a sweet breeze comes flowing down the street. This is when I know. I understand how people can be sleeping on a street corner in the middle of the day with traffic passing and people making a fuss all around. I close my eyes and lean back and float away to a beautiful place. Everything feels wonderful, right here, on a tree lined corner, surrounded by people talking and tasking and enjoying the day. 

The last bit of getting ready involved a visit from the jabidala to get some henna on our hands. We were performing the dance of revealing newly henna'd hands, after all and so we needed props.
I don't have a lot to say here- just wanted to share a few photos. But there is always a bit of reflecting when getting the henna. I think about women's beauty rituals - henna requires a longer period of immobility than nail polish, for example, and results in a much more elegant look, in my opinion. There is something exquisite about henna. Temporary body decoration. Powerful. Transformational. 


Jabidala- mixing the henna (and a little gasoline)

Taping the design


Magical....


3.1.18

Market Day

Walking into the marche artisinal was a feast for the senses. Artists were scattered everywhere, working on their craft- shaping the soles of shoes, lacing up djembes, knotting cotten hammocks and, of course, pouring tea.

It was a stark contrast to the CAVA of Abidjan, with it's neat and narrow pathways and solidly constructed storefronts that resembled little village houses. To be certain, artists are always busy at work there ,too, but they have a sense of space and organization that makes it all seem contained.

The Bamako market was spilling over with cords and leather scraps, the sounds of tin hammering and drums playing, the chatter of women and the sing song calls of vendors, scents of churai and the midday meal mingling in the air. While there were neat store fronts, typical Malian architecture almost demands an imposing and artistic design and the arts market offered no less, the stores were arranged in a large square, with the center area being the communal workshop. People- generally men- had laid down tarps and nats or otherwise staked their claim to the ground, and spread out their tools. The air was alive.

We walked around the edges, gazing into stalls, responding to the never ending invitations to come and look, browse my shop, see my wares, buy-buy-buy. We weren't buying. I was looking for some raffia. And maybe some beads or cowrie shells, though usually those things are not found in the artists market but down some narrow side street where you would least be expecting it.

A wall of masks called to me. Not just a wall but a huge mound of masks- dusty, wooden, some broken and deteriorating. It was a bit overwhelming. The sensation that consumes me when faced with such an array is hard to describe. I am not sure if other people feel this way. It is like history has transformed into a living, breathing thing, has manifested into a physical form and arrives on the wind to envelop me. I feel covered and cloaked and infused with peacefulness. I am immediately transported into an other, a place with no name and no location. It is simultaneously today and yesterday and tomorrow. Lobi. All at once.

It's intoxicating. I spent some time staring at masks, chiwara and nimba, long antelope faces that were especially captivating and the Bwa sun masks from Burkina Faso and parts of Mali. I wasn't alone on this trip however, and so I had to curb my inclination to be lost for hours.  Instead I asked about the raffia I was hoping to find.

The mask seller told me raffia is not indigenous to Mali. I wouldn't be able to find it here. It comes from Cote d'Ivoire....as so many of the products here seem to. I bought some black cord from a drum maker for a ridiculous price instead. We had an interesting exchange, the seller, his friend and I. We talked about dance and art, Conakry and Congo. We even did a little rumba right there in market place.

Congo has that effect on people. They marvel about the music and gasp at the politics. "There is always some kind of trouble there. Always a conflict." After a million of those start-too-high, end-with-a-grasp-that-holds-on-a-little-too-long handshakes, that honestly, I always thought were just for between men, we finally left the market place. I am perpetually in danger of a reckless purchase of a mask or fabric or some other not completely needed item that just seems to 'call to me,' but today was a day of discipline. No purchases, save for the black cord and some bundles of incense intended for artmaking.

Christine is leaving soon for Abidjan and we had made the market trip to pick up some bazin and get a little henna tattoo. The trip to the arts market was an afterthought. I'd been wanting henna for a while, remembering the delicate beauty it brought to my hands when I experienced it in Kinshasa. It seemed like a fitting way to ring in the new year, a little splurging on ourselves. Feeling beautiful.

We ended up sitting at a street side beauty parlor with a few other women who'd also taken a bit of their day to pamper themselves. While we waited for our turn, I watched the people of the market. I am always amazed at the beauty of humans. There are so many graceful people in the world.

I was especially captivated by women browsing through clothes. The vendor was calling out the price of her wares, singing in Bambara. She went on for so long I wondered how she could keep it up all day. It was both magical and annoying. I imagined her at home at night, gargling to soothe her sore throat.

Several elegant women caught my eye, the shape of their faces accented by headscarves, their outlined eyes and long lashes mesmerizing me. It was hard to tear my gaze away. I stopped trying and merely observed the way they shopped, choosing clothes from the pile, holding them up for an instant before deciding to toss back or drape over their arm for purchase. The clothes, mostly shirts, were 300FCFA, making it convenient to acquire multiple items at once.

One of the women came over and joined her friends, who were sitting with us, either getting henna tattoos or having their nails painted. Some just gazed at themselves in a small mirror, making beauty adjustments. It is such a foreign practice to me, this being with other women, preening. I admired the way a few of them had tied their headscarves, a look I'd attempted to achieve but hadn't really been successful at. I finally leaned over and asked one of them to show me how.

It took awhile to make my request clear and, laughing, she finally relented. Her friend kept insisting she would tie me up if I wanted, and pointed out where I could snatch up a quick headscarf for only 500FCFA. I realized that my only problem in achieving the simple but sophisticated style was the length of my scarf. Surely I could manage this at home.

My inquiry lead to more talking, and touching and general camaraderie among us. It was a nice way to pass a few hours, sitting there on the edge of the busy market road, sellers trying their best to evoke a purchase, watching the people pass by- each in their own story.

I asked the woman if I could take her picture and she immediately struck a pose and flashed a smile. Christine laughed and gently turned her head. "No, of the scarf," she said. Our new friend hung her head in dejection and acquiesced. After getting the picture I wanted, I said, "Ok, now you." And the sun turned back on. Same pose, same bright smile.

Simple, elegant headscarf

Beautiful humans are everywhere
Several times an earring seller passed by- I had to ask him eventually if he wasn't the one who had just passed by a minute ago. They were all selling the same thing and had an eerily similar way of holding them right up in my face so I had to jerk back just to breathe. "Princess, princess, buy a little something." The vendor is smooth and his words flow in a silky, clean rhythm that could rival any rap star. I smiled and shook my head. I refused a million ways before he finally moved on. "Princess, princess...." I heard him whisper to the next lady in line. I laughed at the player in him, an ardent peddler of women's jewelry.

He was not the only romeo on the streets that day. Christine attracts a lot of attention. So many marketers followed her, trying to get her to purchase bazin or shoes or even a pair of men's jeans. I have noticed some people naturally attract the sellers. Ousmane is a bit like that too. Going to the market with him means we can count on the hawkers trying to push their watches and belts and other fancy items on him. I imagine they see his beauty and sense his style and assume he likes nice things.

It can either be exhausting or amusing to watch this display of wasted energy exchange. Luckily, on this day I found it all amusing. My favorite declaration of love occurred when we were looking for a taxi to go home. We'd found a fairly small patch of calm to search amidst the chaos. Motorcycles, taxis and sotramas shared the narrow street with bicyclers, pedestrians and roaming vendors.

The roadway cleared for a second. Everything seemed to go quiet. A man zoomed by on a motorcycle only to stop short. "Vien cherie, je t'accompagnerai," he called out to Christine like a marriage proposal.  He seemed to be lost in a romantic daze for a second before zooming off. In a film, a dramatic spotlight would have highlighted his declaration of longing.

"What courage," I laughed. And yet, how else could you really know if a beautiful woman might maybe just consider zooming off with you into paradise if you don't ask? Love takes risks sometimes.
Christine and the henna artist

One of the women shows off her design

My turn- red only please. Later found out this
was a good decision. "Black" henna doesn't
really exist and is a combination of natural
henna and toxic chemicals.  




Simple design made up of mostly lines

Road side vendors....the site of the moto proposal

A lot happens street-side

Twin designs

More street side goods flashing by- 'window -shopping' Africa style


20.11.12

Secrets of Beauty

Pedicures, manicures, massages. All of these things belong to the world of pampering and indulgence that I know nothing about. However, wanting to seek out something special for the wedding celebration led me to investigate the art of henna. Henna has a solid history in use during weddings and other festive events. I was a bit surprised to learn about healing properties however, and especially love this quote:

"Ancient Egyptians and many indigenous and aboriginal people around the world believed that the naturally derived red substances of ochre, blood and henna had qualities that improved human awareness of the earth’s energies. It was therefore applied to help people keep in touch with their spirituality." 
After having both hands liberally decorated, I can see the reason behind this statement. The woman who came to apply my henna was truly magical. She grasped my hand and began drawing with a pipette filled with henna. She gently squeezed out the dark brown mixture as she deftly drew designs. I was amazed that she used no reference, no pictures and no stencils. She seemed to draw quickly and effortlessly.
 Because I had my henna applied at a friend's house, I was left to awkwardly walk home with my hands held up, pointed out at elbows with palms spread wide to keep from accidentally touching anything.


Once arriving, I was faced with my immense hunger and unusable hands. I appealed to my eldest son to feed me yogurt as I imagined the plush and pampered women of India relaxing on huge soft cushions surrounded by aunties and sisters and cousins. I began to understand the value of living in a house full of women.  I do believe Mohamed's gentle yogurt feeding was a thousand times more sweet however. With each deliciously smooth spoonful I remembered feeding him in his infancy, orange sweet potatoes, green spinach and even creamy yogurt.

But forever practical (and the only female in a house full of men) I decided to forego eating more until I could feed myself. I went to lay down and "rest" feeling incredibly incapable and useless (but beautiful.....the exact combination of feelings I spent an entire lifetime trying to avoid.)

After several hours, the paste began to dry and crumble off. Every time I touched something, a shower of muddy brown flakes rained down onto the floor. I was completely appalled and traveled with dustpan and brush to sweep up the mess. I felt like a snake shedding her skin. Left behind was, admittedly, a beautiful pattern of floral lines and the all important darkened fingertips signifying a bride.  I was happy with the effect and tried my best to keep as much of the coverings in place so the color would be dark and strong in the morning, when I was told it would be ok to wash. I slept with my arms held off the bed and imagined how much  harder everything would be if I had been able to get my feet done the way I'd initially imagined. (Because I was at a friend's house and needed to walk home, getting my feet done proved impossible....my shoes and the walk through the damp grass would have ruined everything.)

In the morning, the bed was an ugly mess. Henna flakes were all over the pillow, the blankets and the floor. The real secret to beauty secrets is....there isn't much beautiful about them. I guess this is the "sacrifice" so many women make in the name of beauty. I swept everything up for a final time and happily went off to wash.

In the end, it was worth the waiting and helplessness. Many people remarked on my beautiful hands and I felt like a princess for a day. During a particularly hot drive to the store, a policeman pulled me over with the thought of "requesting" some "cash for a coke" but upon seeing my hands, the conversation changed dramatically and ended with an exchange of pleasantries rather than francs.

I continued searching for avocados and pineapples and began to lose patience. As a few words of mild anger passed my lips, I glanced at my hands gripping the steering wheel. "That's not very beautiful behavior," I thought and immediately searched to calm myself and match the graciousness of my palms. This seemed rather profound to me at the time and brings me back to my original quote about henna being applied to keep people in touch with their spirituality, their humanity towards others and the earth.